Our Values

The Stamford Church of Christ is a group of people dedicated to seeking God, caring for one another, and blessing our world. We are committed to growing more kind, more selfless, more compassionate, and more forgiving to ourselves and to others. We value critical thinking, study, honesty, and good questions over easy answers. We strive for justice, not perfection, in our inner lives, our relationships, and our communities. We prioritize serving our local community. We are a multi-ethnic church, inclusive of all regardless of sex, gender, or sexual orientation, and egalitarian in our leadership.

We honor as our spiritual heritage those attempts that began in America in the 19th century to restore the life and spirit of Christianity as exhibited by Jesus and his apostles. Central to our faith is the sacrificial love of Jesus which orients us to a life of self-emptying love, service, and joy with and for all those in our midst. The values that extend from this central notion of faith include: 


An Ecumenical Spirit 

We recognize the value of different perspectives, seeking to negotiate our differences, or even set them aside, for the sake of the more important things that unite us: the value of love at the center of our lives.

A Just Spirit 

We hold at the center of our convictions God’s love for the poor, marginalized, oppressed, and other victims of particular and general injustices. We believe that God is to be found clearly among the weak and vulnerable in our midst and that what we do for persons such as these, we do for God.

A Sacrificial Spirit

We believe that whatever blessings we receive in each of our stations in life are not strictly for our own satisfaction, but are a means by which we might more fully bless and care for one another. Our lives are not oriented toward our own success, but by a sacrificial ethic for the sake of those in our midst.

An Open Spirit

We refuse to discriminate on the basis of gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or socio-economic status. We are a multi-ethnic, gender-egalitarian, open and inclusive, and socio-economically diverse congregation. That means we honor the particularities we each embody—female, male, poor, rich, gay, straight, queer, Black, White, Asian, West Indian—all as equals, as bearers of the image of God, and as disciples of Jesus. 

A Mindful Spirit

We practice the pursuit of truth, honoring the life of the mind as a gift from God. We study Scripture as well history and current events in their various contexts, recognizing that such consideration can often lead to surprising insights and transformed perceptions on how we see and act in the world. We strive to create a space where all truth can be God’s truth, opening ourselves up to the contributions of the arts & sciences across cultures and faith traditions. 

A Joyful Spirit

We believe that all that God calls us to is ultimately a call to joy. Not a fleeting or self-centered joy, but the joys found when our lives are given away and poured out for the sake of God and one another. 



These resources document and explain our reasoning on difficult topics in churches today. We hope they will be of assistance to those seeking either to understand our position for themselves or to enter into constructive dialogue with friends, family, or churches as a whole.

On Gender Egalitarianism/Inclusivity

Sons and Daughters - documents the history and rationale of our church's movement toward full gender inclusivity.

On Sexuality

Affirmation - Sermon delivered by Dale Pauls on April 26, 2015 urging understanding and acceptance of the LGBTQ community; includes an appendix with notes on a class on the Ethiopian Eunuch (Acts 8).

On Sexuality

5 Questions on Sexuality and LGBTQ - document in Q&A format answering five typical questions relating to Scripture, tradition, culture, ethics, and practice regarding our inclusive position on LGBTQ persons.



Dale Pauls

Minister Emeritus and Associate Minister


Dale has been on staff here since 1978, twenty-nine years as our Senior Minister. He’s also past president of the regional InterFaith Council and still... Read More

Eddie is a professional singer with national and international credits. He oversees most of the special events at Stamford Church including weddings... Read More

Edward Pleasant

Minister of Music and Worship Arts


Sandra Hogan

Administrative Assistant


Gillian Bigby

Facilities Coordinator


Veronica Green

Church Custodian

John & Rosemary Williams 


Scott and Julia Johnson 


Tony Keating


Guy Bocicaut




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